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- “Ask four questions – set yourself free.”
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Byron Katie
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- The Work is a way to identify and question the thoughts that cause all
the suffering in the world.
- The Work is four questions and turnarounds.
- Anyone with an open mind can do it.
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- There are no new stressful thoughts.
- It is not the thought that causes our suffering. It is our attachment to
the thought, the stories we tell ourselves about what is happening.
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- “I need to know what to do.”
- “Children are supposed to love their parents.”
- “Something terrible is going to happen.”
- “I am too fat/too thin/too old/too young.”
- “People are judging me.”
- “I need a partner to be happy.”
- “My partner doesn’t appreciate me.”
- “People should not lie.”
- “There’s too much to do.”
- “I need more money.”
- “Something terrible is going to happen.”
- “My body should be healthy.”
- “I can control how others feel about me.”
- “You don’t care about me.”
- “My boss should appreciate me.”
- “People are destroying the environment.”
- “God should not let children die.”
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- My business
- Your business
- God’s business
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- Click on the graphic and download your
- Judge Your Neighbor Worksheet
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- 1. Is it true?
- 2. Can you absolutely know that
it’s true?
- 3. How do you react—what
happens—when you believe that
thought?
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- 4. Who would you be without the
thought?
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- Belief: “He doesn’t listen to me.”
- Turn it around to yourself:
“I don’t listen to me.”
- Turn it around to the other:
“I don’t listen to him.”
- Turn it around to the opposite:
“He does listen to me.”
- And don’t forget to find three genuine examples for each turnaround.
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- To do the work on your own,
click on the graphic & print it out
- Pick one of your universal beliefs.
- Write it on the top line of the page.
- Write your answers to the questions.
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- Check out www.thework.com
- Go to an event
- Call the hotline
- Consider going to The School
- If you would like information on
more classes like this, teleseminars,
sign up for our free newsletter at
TheWorkWithSandra.com
- Phone 888-490-4600 or 831-600-7772
- Skype Me: recovery4u
- I love sharing the work and getting free!!
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